Causes of marriage failure

Marriage is a good thing and should be honored by all.💍

This has been practiced over the years and has been respected by many people all over the world, from different cultures, traditions, religion and different social groups. 👫

So what is marriage?

Marriage, over the years has been defined as the legal agreement between two individuals (male and female) to become husband and wife. Marriage has also been the legal ground for raising children even as the couple become intimate to each other.

But what has led to marriage failure or why has most marriages failed?😈

Let's consider the following facts.

Most intended couples spend more on their wedding ceremony than on their marriage life.
You spend hundreds of hours planning and preparing for your wedding—the venue, the dress, the guest list, the bridesmaids, the groomsmen, the ceremony, the vows—but choose not to spend time planning and preparing on growing your marriage life. This has been a great challenge for many youths, they just see wedding as what will determine how well they will do in marriage but this is never true.

Secondly, one of the reasons why most marriages fail today is premarital sex. Many young people don't know that these things have great impact on their behavior, and they don't know, once you have sex before marriage, you have entered into a covenant without God's consent and you can be very sure  that success is far from that marriage.

You listen to foolish marriage advice.
You listen to well-intended, but foolish, advice about your relationship from a “friend” who wants you to join their man-hater or woman-hater club rather than listening to wise advice

Another is when lying is the foundation of their relationship.
You cannot be trusted by your spouse when: you don’t speak the truth at all times, you keep secrets, or you don’t do what you say you’ll do.

Openness is yet another one. If you are not open to your spouse then there will be a great challenge in the future.

You treat your spouse like the enemy.
You think they are on the opposing team so you keep a marital scorecard. You keep track of who spends more, disciplines more, does the dishes more, cleans more, mows more, and works more. And you become bitter and resent your spouse for not helping. this has never helped any marriage before so you have to avoid it.

The inability to say am sorry. Over the years, many marriages has come to an end just because nobody wants to take the blame, no one wants to say am sorry. This is a pity that because many marriages are still on their way to destruction

Lastly, one of the most dangerous reason for marriage failure is that the couple failed to know that marriage is eternal. Marriage is not ordinary, God designed marriage for his own pleasure, he uses marriage to make up generations that will showcase his glory therefore, the we must pray to God for his will concerning our marriage.

Correct youths, please learn from these and make your way through to a successful marriage in the future. We love you. 😍

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